Why the heck would anyone wear makeup?

God made you beautiful. Why not just accept it and why do we try to change the way our face looks? As girls, we are constantly trying to improve our image to be better and be more beautiful, but honestly, weren't we made beautiful? There are two kinds of girls out there in general (I know there are more but we will just talk about the two at the moment). One type of girl will wear a full face of make up every day and the other type of girl couldn't care less.

This second type of girl will wear mascara usually, but really that's about it. Just the basics of the basics and some times not even that. She doesn't care about getting ready for the day and thinks it's a complete waste of time or she just doesn't have the time. Thoughts will come into her mind like, "I just don't get why someone would put so much makeup on their face. It's deceiving to others when she looks completely different with it off." Truth: this was me. 

There are other variations of this girl, but you understand what I'm talking about. All those pictures that go around the internet that show how much different a girl would look all made up. I've seen them. If this was 3 or 4 years ago my thoughts would say, "that's disgusting." But, I see things in a completely different light now. When I see those transformations on the internet now I think, "WOW!" 

What changed my perception? And that is all it is, perception. Let me take you back to a time when I didn't care. First off, I didn't want people to be shocked if they saw me without makeup. I wanted to be REAL. I wanted to look natural; as I was into more "natural" type things. But another thing that I didn't tell people is that I didn't know how to make it look good. Granted, I hated foundation because of the way it felt on my face. But as far as eye shadow went, I didn't know how to make it look the way other people's did. Cheek color was laughable and I thought only old ladies wore it. Lip stick was also something of the past and I didn't want to be that "girly."

I was proud that I could get showered, dressed, hair done, makeup and everything in about 20 minutes. I wasn't like those "other" girls and I didn't need to a take a lot of time in the bathroom. But what I didn't realize is that I was taking pride in what I thought wasn't being prideful. What a concept right? It took me a long time to figure this out. 

It takes a lot of courage to go out and look nice. Do you realize how many people will ask me in a store why I am dressed up for that day? People will compliment me like crazy and all I did was put my makeup on and not wear my sweats to the grocery store. It is amazing to realize that not taking care of ourselves has become the norm and it is abnormal to look nice. I know this is a controversial issue, but what have we become? 

Have you ever heard of the "Great Generation?" They are those people born in the 20's or 30's and grew up during the Great Depression. They are the ones who still wear lipstick every day and dress nice when they are going to go out in public. They are the reason I didn't want to wear lipstick because I felt like it was an old lady thing. But this is what I know about them. They think about honor, dignity, and respect. The Great Generation will dress up nice to go anywhere because they believe it is how they show respect to themselves. Now, think about that for a moment. Showing respect to ourselves. How would the world look if we all did this instead of walking around in our PJ's in stores and school and where ever else we go? Did you know that people feel better when they get ready? Did you know that it boosts their confidence level to wear makeup and nice clothes? If you disagree with me just try it! Why wouldn't we want to feel good about ourselves?
I know for a fact that as soon as I started looking nice I became a nicer person. As soon as I learned how to do my makeup I really loved it because I thought higher of myself. It's not always about being vain. It's about respecting ourselves and our gender. Women are POWERFUL! We can do so many things and do it well. Why not feel powerful all the time? I do now. My perception of myself has been altered greatly since I started putting on my makeup every day and dressing nicer. I am a completely different person than I was 2 years ago. So why in the heck would I take a little bit longer in the bathroom to get ready? So I can feel good about myself. And oddly enough people are sometimes intimidated by me; but how awesome is it to be intimidated by someone and that person be kind to you? It raises their esteem higher. I do it now because I honestly feel that I am a woman to enrich other people's lives. And I should look good and feel good about myself so that I can help others do the same. 

Now, I'm not a great writer or anything, but I do hope that I'm being understood. It is the norm to not care, but it is so much better to care about yourself and your image. Image is an amazing thing. If you want to be someone who influences others in any way, it helps so much to have the image to go with it.

"Even a barn looks better when it's painted" - David O. McKay

Powerful women - thanks Lia Carta for letting me steal this picture without you knowing ;)

Dreams and Logistics

Have you ever seen the movie "Safe Haven?" And if you have, did you ever think that would be such a fun lifestyle? Such a cute fantasy with small towns, beaches, bike riding, and canoeing. I saw it and seriously thought.. that's the life right there!
It came on TV at my parents house the other day when we were over doing laundry. Yeah... we don't have a washer and dryer at the moment. :) My thoughts reverted back to what they had been the first time I watched it. But as I was watching the movie I was thinking about my own life and what I really like about it. Honestly, sometimes other people's lives appear to be so amazing and simple. But they didn't talk about any financial troubles anyone was having or the economy going down. They did show some family troubles, but it all works out in the end right?
I started thinking about my life. I have a job that I LOVE! I am earning my 2nd FREE car. I have a great husband who would do pretty much anything for me. We are moving to a place I've never been (I love doing that by the way), and he's going to be a doctor. We have two beautiful dogs that I love to go on walks with. My life is GREAT!!
I will often times let myself ponder on what could be if I was in a different situation, but you know what I realized? I will never be content having a simple slow lovely life. I was meant to do more in this world. I was meant to make a difference. And as much as a simple, beautiful life appeals to me - I know I would get bored. I would always search for more because that's who I am.
I do believe I may always envy people who can sit on their porch all day with an "ice cold cherry coke," playing guitar, saying hi to their neighbors and that is their biggest worry in life... who to talk to today. :) But I know it could never be mine. I love the thought of it, but my love for making a huge impact in this world and inspiring women to do the same is way bigger than that.
Don't get me wrong though! I enjoy my days when I'm not doing anything. I love being outdoors and being in the mountains. I can do all those things because I create my life exactly the way I want it.. and I get paid good money to do it.
Work Hard Play Hard!!!!